Sensual Women Viewed As 'Objects'

While most men will argue and deny the fact that they do not regard attractive women as objects, a new study has just proved otherwise. The study involved scanning the brains of selected men while viewing images of women in a swim wear. It was found that the sections of the brains that usually responded for objects, lit up!

Further more the, it was also found that the portion of the brain responsible for social interaction de-activated when such images were viewed by men known for their sexist tendencies. As concluded by Professor Susan Fiske, of Princeton University, her results clearly proved that men did not regard sensual women as 'human' at all.

"I am not saying that they literally see them as an object, of course they know she is human," the Telegraph quoted her, as saying. "But what the brain scans show is that they are reacting to this photograph as people react to objects. It is as if they are not fully human.

"They are not treating them as fully three dimensional humans," she added. She says that that the constant availability and demand for sensuous pictures of young women in the society was responsible for this phenomenon and it "decreased the extinct that they were seen as human".

Professor Susan said that the effect was similar to viewing violence on TV, that eventually desensitize people to the affects of violence. "I think that there is a parallel in seeing lots of sexualized women. You get used to it," she said.

The professor stated that the effect was particularly higher in workplace. The study showed that men interviewed sensual women differently than other women and men.

Ways To Intrigue A Woman - This Will Get Her Sensual Side Attracted Towards You In No Time!

Among the secrets of keeping and attracting women is by intriguing them. It basically means making them think, wonder and possibly daydream about you continuously, which in turn opens up her sensual side to you. Eventually she will be easily attracted to you, and if you are effective at accomplishing this, it won't take more than a few minutes. The following are the simple guidelines on how you can intrigue the woman of your dreams. Read further to get you started right away!

The way you dress - The brand of your clothes is not a big deal at all; just be sure not to wear them at all times. Wear your most desired get-up, but the woman you are dating must be unable to foresee what you are going to wear. Make certain that she keeps seeing you in several different attires. As the saying goes, "Variety is the spice of life".

How you smell - Keep this in mind: never wear single cologne incessantly. Even though she has told you for a lot of times that it smells really good and that the scent suits you, there will come a time when your woman will eventually get bored with your smell. Just think about this: assuming that pasta is your all-time favorite food, will you eat it every meal and every single day? Certainly you are not going to do that, are you?

The way you style your hair - Does it look neat at all times? Does it always look like you just got out of bed because it is messed up? Never sport the same hairstyle again and again. Vary it a bit by looking like a rough guy today and Mr. Prim and Proper the following day. You can also have it dyed for a few weeks or make it a bit long for that very new look.

How often you shave yourself - Do you shave on a constant basis? If so, why not go out with your girl unshaved even for a day or two? This is highly recommended for guys who always look 'nice' in the eyes of sensual girl, which they believe is a sign of weakness. An unshaven appearance can help you look stronger and more masculine. You can do this occasionally as majority of women still go for guys who are neatly shaved.

The way you act - Most importantly, the way you act has absolutely everything to do with attracting women to you. If you really want women to feel attracted to you, and if you want to open up her sensual side fast, you need to act "cockily confident". It may seem "jerky" at first, but trust me, it will get her glued to you, because you will show her that you are confident and know what you want.

Now listen carefully - What you are about to discover something most men will never know when it comes to attracting women. This is one thing which is an absolute must know for every man out there. You are about to discover an ultimate secret weapon which will make women chase you around like crazy Even If You Are Bald, Fat Or Ugly!.....Trust me....You don't want to miss this one.

Tantra For Women - An Exercise to Awaken Sensuality

A tragic fact is that the gender with the greatest potential for mind-blowing sexual pleasure, the ultimate erotic tantra experience, usually settles for much less. As a tantra teacher, I condemn the excessive cultural emphasis placed on a man's virility, and on the fact that a man's orgasm is essential for procreation. Ancient tantra has always recognized that women, whose sexual satisfaction has ironically been downplayed for years, are the ones who are capable of multiple orgasms.

Even for women who report a general sense of satisfaction with sex, the ancient art of tantra can open up a whole world of pleasure beyond what they normally experience. Tantra scriptures believe that sexual satisfaction is vital for strong emotional bonds. Both men and women experience deeper feelings of love and attachment when they share exquisite sexual pleasure and powerful desire.

I give below an esoteric tantra technique known as 'Shakti ambuddhi paddati'. This ancient technique is designed to increase a woman's sensual receptivenes. A tragic fact is that the gender with the greatest potential for mind-blowing sexual pleasure, the ultimate erotic tantra experience, usually settles for much less.

As a tantra teacher, I condemn the excessive cultural emphasis placed on a man's virility, and on the fact that a man's orgasm is essential for procreation. Ancient tantra has always recognized that women, whose sexual satisfaction has ironically been downplayed for years, are the ones who are capable of multiple orgasms.

Women across cultures have been settling for bland, unsatisfying sex or no sex at all. They are unaware of the latent tantra goddess within, and therefore miss out on or ignore the very thing that could give them what all woman crave:

o More intimacy and closeness
o Their partner's undivided attention, both within and beyond the bedroom
o Overall life satisfaction
o Confidence in their erotic appeal and attractiveness
o Confidence in a secure, happy relationship

This tantra exercise also acts as a subconscious sexual 'tonic' in that it helps balance hormones, create proper sexual function and increase libido in women. This particular exercise for women must be done at night, preferably between 1 to 4 am (the specific time is related to the breathing cycle).

o Lie on your back with your arms along your sides and relax.
o Exhale, then inhale deeply, relaxing all the muscles in your body
o Slowly exhale as you squeeze your 1st and 2nd chakras and the adjoining muscles, trying to pull your energy as deeply inward as you can. Do not strain while squeezing - this tantra exercise is not meant to be exhausting
o After exhaling, relax your 1st and 2nd chakra muscles for 10 minutes
o Repeat the inhaling and exhaling as you squeeze 1st and 2nd chakra muscles 10-15 times slowly
o Relax, then repeat the exercise if you feel comfortable

Tantra for women influences mind, body and soul simultaneously and is best practiced under the careful guidance and supervision of an experienced tantra teacher. Amateur instructions or attempts to self-practice tantra will not result in optimum benefits. It requires the expert guidance and supervision of a qualified tantra master to get the most out of such techniques, and to prevent possible physical and emotional harm.

Redtracker 'Drivers Seat': Smart Sensuality Women's News

Nancy Pelosi Was a Brief Speaker at Diane von Furstenberg’s House

Style.com reports that Nancy Pelosi attended a $15,000 a head fundrasier, Thursday evening in NYC, hosted by Diane von Furstenberg. Pelosi broke away from her Washington DC focus of passing climate bill, which passed Friday in the House of Representatives 219-212.

Pelosi cancelled a joint news conference with herself and Al Gore, deciding wisely not to create any opportunity for upsetting the very fragile lobbying for votes apple cart at the 11th hour. Gore is known for being impassioned and effective on the environment, but also confrontational.

“We passed transformational legislation which takes us into the future,” Pelosi said at a press conference following the vote, after she and other leaders took congratulatory phone calls from Obama, former Vice President Al Gore and Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid.

While in NYC, Pelosi didn’t have time to visit the most inspiring of our new environmental initiative, the reclaimed High Line, visible from Diane von Furstenberg’s studio. Von Furstenberg and husband Barry Diller are key players in the High Line project.

See NYC’s High Line Embraces Architect Mickey Muennig’s Green-Roof Philosophy and New York’s ‘High Line’ Is Cultural Creative Activism in High Gear.

Tracy Anderson Opens Studio in Tribeca, Ready to Transform more Bodies, Besides Madonna and Paltrow

via Telegraph UKMeet Tracy Anderson, creator of Gyneth Paltrow’s butt and Mondona’s ‘everything physical’. Yes, the woman behind those sinewy muscles has just opened a gym in Tribeca, donating all proceeds to Madonna’s charity Raising Malawi.

Anderson’s method is also downloadable from her website Tracy Anderson Method.

As always the UK press does an in-depth article on the Tracy Anderson method, compared to the American press. I give you one from each:

Tracy Anderson: guru by appoiontment to her Madge, Madonna: Telegraph UK

Meet the fitness trainer who transformed Gyneth Paltrow: USA Today

Clairol Perfect 10 Research May Confirm Dove’s: British (and American) Women Believe They Reach ‘Ideal’ Beauty Decades Ahead of Other Countries

Anne here, hunting for the press release behind the Clairol Perfect 10 research about women and happiness. The British press is reporting the survey of 4,000 women without stipulating the nationality of women researched. No word in the American press yet.

Dove has verified in extensive research of women around the world that American and British women believe that a woman’s age of “ideal” beauty is much younger than women in other countries.

Dove (Campaign for Ideal Beauty) asked the question ‘what is the age of ideal beauty’? By country responses to the answer ‘twenties’ were:

USA 48%; GBR 41%; FRA 11%; ITA 16%; BRA 18%.

Conversely, by country responses to the answer ‘forties” were:

USA 12%; GBR 22%; FRA 39%; ITA 38%; BRA31%.

Simply stated, American women believe that we reach the age of ‘ideal’ beauty before 30. We are ALONE in that belief among women around the world. The British women aren’t far behind us, and both groups have a staggeringly different self-perception than French, Italian and Brazilian women. Anne

British Women Lead Men in Launching ‘Ethical’ Businesses

London June 25, 2009

The London Times explores the reason why so many British women are launching ethical businesses. A recent survey in England reports that 60 percent of women thought that ethical and environmental considertations in business were important, compared with only 48 per cent of men.

We believe that in the US, women also dominate over men in embracing these values, but believe that the European women are generally more advanced in making issues like sustainability, the environment, and fair trade key planks of their business mission.

One of my goals here in our Smart Sensuality column, is to ask the question of American women, why we lag European women in these business priorities and to track the evolution of Smart Sensuality women who will embrace them. Read Businesswomen making work a greener place, via London Times.

Increasingly, Career Takes Precedence Over Children for British Women

London June 26, 2009

Countless Smart Sensuality women are mothers: Madonna, Michelle Obama, Queen Rania, Susan Sarandon, Carla Bruni, Angelina Jolie, Sophia Lauren. This famous field comes to mind, before I review the younger set.

Reality is, however, that increasing numbers of women in developed countries are choosing not to have children. (Note that adult women choosing to be single mothers is also the largest segment of single parents.) A study released yesterday in England confirms that 19 per cent of women born in 1960 are choosing to remain childless.

These women are healthy females, often married or cohabitating, and typically sexually active. A similar pattern exists in the US. via London Times

“Rape Trees” Along US Border

via Latina, Julian CardonaWe don’t have to travel all the way to the Middle East to find crimes against women. Latina previously posted a photo that caught our eye this morning. Affirming the fact that the violence in Mexico is heading north into the US, cartel members are marking their territory with “rape trees”.

These “rape trees” are places where cartel members and coyotes rape female border crossers and hang their clothes, specifically undergarments, to mark their conquest and territory.

Read also a followup piece on Latina: The Steep Price of Immigration for Latin American Women.

New York June 25, 2009

Women Artistic Directors Turn Away Scripts From Female Playwrights

It’s easy to assume that female playwrights are produced less frequently than males because of the male-dominated ‘power structure’. But recent Princeton grad Emily Glassberg Sands has added an important new body of research to the growing evidence that women discriminate against other women, more than men do.

As part of her senior thesis, Glassberg sent four unpublished plays to artistic directors around the country, each written by an accomplished female playwright. Male artistic directors assigned nearly identical ratings, regardless of gender. The women artistic directors asigned “markedly lower ratings to a script” with a female pen name. via Bloomberg

Christian Amanpour

New York June 24, 2009

One of the most respected people in journalism, Christian Amanpour is most connected with stories about the Middle East and Muslim women in general. Based in New York as CNN’s chief international correspondent, Amanpour has reported on every major crisis around the globe.

We who watch her regularly are accustomed to seeing Christian on the ground, head typically covered, reporting live in her articulate, steady voice. Lesley Stahl shares an in-depth interview of Smart Sensuality woman Christian Amanpour for wowOwow.

Nancy Pelosi

Washington, DC July 24, 2009

US Speaker of the House Nancy Polosi’s approval ratings are south of 40 percent (still higher than Congress overall) but Politico reports that she’s maintained a firm grip on Congress.

Pelosi dropped the gauntlet on climate action, saying that she would not only force movement on the massive cap-and-trade bill before Congress recesses on July 4, but that she would pass the bill.

In saying that she would deliver victory on the Waxman-Markey climate-energy-bill, Nancy Pelosi took a big gamble, setting herself up for a daring political victory or the biggest defeat of her six months as President Barack Obama’s legislative ramrod.

Zahra Rahnavard

Tehran - June 24, 2009

Iranian activist and wife of the country’s main opposition leader Zahra Rahnavard issued a call earlier today for the immediate release of Iranians detained in election protests.

“I regret the arrest of many politicians and people and want their immediate release,” Zahra Rahnavard, who has been playing an influential role in the protests, declared, according to news reports. “It is my duty to continue legal protests to preserve Iranian rights.” (via NYTimes)

Feminism in Italy

The London Times peels away the outer layer of gender relations in Italy, with the warning that looks are deceiving.

Yes, Italian men do less housework than in most ‘advanced’ countries. The ongoing saga of Italian Prime Minister Silvio Berlusconi illuminates a deeply-seeded chauvinism towards women — or so it seems. Not so fast, cautions London times writer Sarah Vine.

Many Italians see the PM’s actions as ones of impotence, not virile masculinity. Vine argues that Italy continues to represent a matriarchal society, not as extreme as China’s Mosuo Matriarchy, but female centric, nevertheless.

Woman Power in Iran

The women of Iran are reaching for their own power and the whole world is watching. Slate Magazine writes that not Obama, nore Bush and not even Twitter are at the heart of what’s going on in Iran. Years of deligent work define the public defiance going on in Iran, and women not only participate, but often lead. (See Redtracker: In the Streets of Iran, Zahra Rahnavard Leads the Greens but We Also Hear from a Red.)

The Iranian clerics in and out of Iran know that women poses a profound threat to their authority and leadership. On the short term, clerics may prevail with force against Muslim women.

Slate introduces us to the One Million Signatures campaign, an online organization calling for an end to alws that end discrimination for Muslim women in Iran. See also the Human Rights & Democracy for Iran website.

Carla Bruni Sarkozy

Carla Bruni Bruni promised to stop the touring gigs in her singing career, after becoming First Lady of France.

But soon after taking on her official duties Carla told a documentary film maker: ‘No more sex, no more drugs, only rock and roll.’

Now the Carla is headed to Madison Square Garden on July 18, joining Aretha Franklin, Cyndi Lauper, Alicia Keyes and Stevie Wonder in celebrating Nelson Mandela’s 91st birthday.

French President Nicolas Sarkozy

Sarkozy lashed out Monday the small but growing number of women in France who are wearing burqas.

“The burqa is not a religious sign, it’s a sign of subservience, a sign of debasement — I want to say it solemnly,” he said. “It will not be welcome on the territory of the French Republic.”

In France, the terms “burqa” and “niqab” often are used interchangeably. The former refers to a full-body covering worn largely in Afghanistan with only a mesh screen over the eyes, whereas the latter is a full-body veil, often in black, with slits for the eyes.

France’s junior minister for human rights, Rama Yade, said she was open to a ban if it is aimed at protecting women forced to wear the burqa.

Angelina Jolie on CNN with Anderson Cooper 360

There’s an infinite number of reasons why Angelina Jolie is so admired as a Smart Sensuality woman, but her sensitivity to global problems is so much more than lip service.

United Nations Goodwill Ambassador Angelina talks about the amazing spirits of refugee children, comparing their resilience with her own children’s less demanding lives, while fighting back the tears.

Angelina Jolie and her husband Bradd Pitt have just donated $1 million to the refugee crisis in Pakistan. A

Hillary Clinton

Our Smart Sensuality Secretary of State has reinvented herself, according to Politico, who describes her as a disciplined Obama loyalist. Mrs Clinton is running an old-fashioned era of ‘grindstone leadership’ over at Foggy Bottom.

“Her star power has been an enormously effective tool for us,” Tom Donilon, the deputy national security adviser with a central role in running foreign policy day to day, told POLITICO, describing the attention she commands abroad and her access to foreign leaders.

Mrs. Clinton is said to work incredibly well with alpha males.

Betsy Markey

Rep. Betsy Markey (D-Colo) isn’t worried to say that her life goal wasn’t to make lattes. Times have evolved a little bit for Smart Sensuality women.

It was only a few years back that Markey’s daybook was filled with the commitments of a wife and working mother of three. After establishing solid businesses — including an IT firm and a coffee shop in Old Town Fort Collins, Colo. (the latter of which she sold for twice what she paid for it) — Markey had other ambitions.

Markey displays a similar patter to Hillary Clinton, as a Smart Sensuality woman. She’s charming but highly disciplined, devoted to detail and the lives of her constituents. Reading about both Secretary of State Clinton and Betsy Markey on Politico, I’m reminded that Smart Sensuality women are active powerhouses when it comes to getting things done.

Sensuality With Sexy Clothing

It's the time to take some serious consideration on the kind of clothing that remains hidden from ones eyesight. These are under garments that one does not give much attention to while making the purchase. With the passage of time, things have undergone a major change with the women being trendier and more concerned about the health and comfort level on ones personality. From colourful brassieres, to panties, from thongs, G strings to petites, corset, and women are adventurous enough to try out each and every type of undergarments that one can lay one's hands on.

The problem in the present scenario is that the global economic slowdown has led to reduction of the amount of money that women had in their pockets. Hence the only option that these women seem to have is the purchase of cheap lingerie. Cheap lingerie can be purchased by keeping a look on the time; the different stores advertise their discount and sales. Even the Internet gives access to the wide range of lingerie available in the market along with their price range. Such a development of technology thus proves to be advantageous to women as well. With the help of the net connection, the women can go through a thorough research of the lingerie sets that one can take ones pick from in the comfort of ones home. This is especially true for women who are working throughout the day and cannot go for a shopping spree when their heart desires.

Since women are more aware of their sexuality these days, the significance of purchasing the perfect set of lingerie to go with the perfect dress has become of utmost necessity. They are aware of the fact that a wrong piece of brassiere beneath sexy clothing actually mars the appeal of the entire apparel. Hence, it is the right garment along with the right undergarment that one must give attention to, prior to steeping outdoors, in an office meeting or a marriage ceremony. Even those intimate moments that one spends with ones partner are to be taken care of, in order to make those moments precious. After all, it is the woman who plays the vital role in seducing the man of her choice. Lingerie chosen for such moments should be made keeping in mind the skin tone, the color of the eye and the colour of the hair. This is because a wrong set of colored lingerie, something that is a misfit to ones skin tone can actually spoil the entire episode of love making, no matter how expensive the set of sexual lingerie might have been. Hence, in order to look ones sensuous best, one needs to give attention to the aforesaid factors before choosing out any set of lingerie that looks attractive to the eye.

For any woman, the appeal lies in being looked as womanly and feminine. In order to get the perfect curves and shapes right, it is important to get the correct size of the lingerie that one is purchasing. Therefore, a lot of time and effort should be assigned in the purchase of lingerie so that the woman derives the maximum appreciation from the gaze of her admirers.

What is sensuality?

Look in the dictionary for a definition of sensuality, depending upon the version and maker, varying definitions exist. Ask any person to define sensuality, and still more interpretations. Sensuality in its truest form is not to be confused with SEX. Sensuality means to be aroused by things of beauty, luxury and refinement, to be aware of and explore the world, life and love with all the senses. To be sensual is to be aware of and appreciate the natural, ecstasy that can be found in the sensuous, passionate world of feeling, inhabited by poets, artists, song writers and dreamers. Being sensual brings to us a life felt through our senses, seen only in the world of spirit.

Living a sensuous life, your world is enhanced by awareness. Appreciation and acceptance for who and what you are. A passion for life and love. Sensuality is a world that virtually weaves itself in a rich tapestry of beauty, of intense arousal and passion where even the simplest touch of a finger drawn lightly across the bare skin of a lover’s back in the early morning hour causes the lover to awaken filled with a heightened awareness. In their heightened states, the colors of the world are painted in more radiant, vivid hues; eyes are deeper, skin is creamier as the sun filtering through the drapes dances off their bodies. An exquisite luxurious feeling. Joy. That exultation of spirit, pleasure, passion and delight is yours. Joy leads to ecstasy.

Keep ecstasy in our lives and lovers will go through their days filled with joy – that never ending supply of excitement of the spirit that brightens their lives and fills them with delight. Feeling and being are the sublime part of a man and brings warmth, gentleness, relatedness and perception to sensuality. It is the divine feminine nature existing in both a man and a woman. Feeling is the art of having a value structure and a sense of meaning and belonging. Feeling is the part that brings love to us. Romance in a relationship allows us to touch the soul of a lover. Romance and ecstasy mixed, allows us to touch the heart and soul.

What person doesn’t love Love? It is the essence of life. Love. Such a wonderful, essential part of our beings. Without it we would wither and die. Romance, ecstasy, passion and ultimately, love, are so powerful a human drive they have kindled wars, created works of art, consoled the dying, driven kings to insanity and bankrupted nations. Love is the most important aspect of our lives, yet we spend our lives searching for it when a simple act of vulnerability toward our feeling nature will cause it to spring forward, catching us like a bird in flight.

It is that vital, intrinsic, pulse-beating passion within us, our feeling natures, sensuality, that gives us creativity and a sense of joy. Through our feelings we experience our purpose and the special, ecstatic moments in our lives. It is through our feelings that our lives are given meaning and worth. It is our romancing one another in loving, ecstatic ways that helps us to discover that we are ALL sensual beings.

Russian Girls! They Are Very Specia!

This topic has been debated many times but the question still exists:

"Why do a lot of single men all over the world choose Russian girls?"

Frankly, I get asked this question a lot. What's so special about Russian girls?

If you ask yourself the same question as well, you'll probably find helpful information in this article. Facts.

According to the latest sensus, Russia is home to 10 million more women then men, said State Statistics Committee head V.Sokolin.

The number of women in their 30s exceeds the number of men significally. After the divorce, the woman with a kid (or with no kids) has little chance of getting married again in Russia, according to sociologists.

There are no men in Russia to get married to: mortality rate of the working age males is extremely high.

Keeping these statistics in mind, check your dating opportunities in Russia as well. You will be shocked by the quality of Russian girls.

A Russian girl is beautiful. The proverb 'Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder' confirms that tastes differ. The woman one man considers to be beautiful, another may think she is not.

Effortless grace...Charming smile...Kindness...Beautiful cheekbones...Fair hair and skin...? Hard to choose...Possibly, it makes an irresistable mix.

Let's see it by the eyes of men. This is how Western men describe a genuine Russian girl: "Slant to the eyes...","...I can't resist this stunning beauty", "Russian girls are the most beautiful women I have seen"...

Should anything be added? However, nobody is able to judge by beauty alone. Let's see other Russian woman's qualities.

The highest priority is her family. The woman's marriage age in Russia is about 25 years old. That means Russian girls get married comparatively early. At least Russian girls try but fail (see the sensus).

It looks unusual if a Russian girl at the age of 30 is still unmarried. She feels uncomfortable either.

These are daily facts from the Russian woman's life: ~Being highly educated, she would prefer a stable and happy family to her career; ~Tireless commitment to her loved ones, she keeps the household herself; ~Her husband is a partner and not a competitor; More facts?

Love and romance.

The Russian woman's 'romantic sweetnes' makes her search for a happy, fulfilling and loving relationship. A Russian girl is extremely feminine girl, healthy girl, sexy girl, passionate girl, sensual girl and thankful.

Love-making is not a hard work for her: it's the pleasure and the beauty of mutual satisfaction. The truth is that the Russian girl while making love is really making love ... A Russian girl wants to see the excitement in you, so give it to her! You will not regret.

Russian girls are educated and smart. You will be pleasantly surprised at the educational level of Russian girls looking for men abroad. A university or college degree is a common thing. It's not a bluff.

Don't forget they are very spiritual. The tradition of reading books, attending concerts, museums is still alive in Russia.

Beautiful Russian girls are extremely teachable: you will not believe how quickly they are able to begin speaking a new language and adapt themselves to the new circumstances.

Russian girls are brave. Do you think it's easy to leave the country of birth, relatives, friends, the job, and the native language? Try... It's extremely difficult.

Ideal image? This is sure a common portrait of beautiful Russian girls looking for men abroad.

If you take into account the general qualities as well as concentrate on the real woman, you'll be fine.

Start focusing on the woman, communicate with her, ask and answer questions, let her know that you are sincere. Be yourself, let her know that you care about her - any woman wants to be taken care of - how can you go wrong with that?

The term 'Russian girl' includes girls from Ukraine and Belarus as well, as they have very much in common. There are exceptions so you should be very careful in your choice.

Giving and Receiving a Sensual Massage

Giving and Receiving a Sensual Massage

Every man wants to be able to please his woman in every way, but most men fail to realize the best way to get to the heart of a woman. The truth is, all women love massages and it is a surefire way to get lucky that night, especially if you give her a sensual massage to get her in the mood. It is an absolutely spectacular idea to combine the acts of massage and sex to create a night that she will never forget. It works for couples who need to add a little spice to their fizzling romance or for someone who is looking to impress a new lover. A sensual massage is your guaranteed ticket to getting some pleasure of your own that night.

Most men think of this amazing combination of intimate acts, but they seldom step up to the plate to actually do it. Sometimes men can harbor a fear of rejection, which makes them nervous to give a massage while other times they are just not sure how to initiate a sensual massage. All women are very receptive to a massage, but not every woman is going to be in the mood for a sensual massage. How interested your lady is in a sensual massage is directly related to what type of mood she is in at the time. One thing you can try is starting off with a regular muscle massage and then easing into a more sensual and sexual affair.

The first thing you must do before you can even begin touching your lady is to take the necessary steps to get prepared. Aside from your hands and her body, there are a few items that you will need to carry through with a sensual massage. To help you enjoy the female sensuality of the night, be sure to invest in some baby wipes, massage oil or lotion, a blindfold, and a towel. You may want to spend some time searching around for the best massage oil or lotion because you will be surprised as to what a difference that can really make to the sensual massage and to the night as a whole. There are also some maintenance issues that you should keep in mind before jumping in head, or hands, first. Be sure that your hands are clean and your nails are trimmed. Your hands should be warm because you do not want to make your lady uncomfortable with your cold hands. Also, be sure that you never apply the oil or lotion directly to the body because it will be too slippery. You should put it on your hands, begin the sensual massage and enjoy having the night of your life.

I Love Sensual Women

I love sensual women and not passionate ones. A passionate woman closes her eyes, moans and shouts and the enjoyment of a passionate woman is blind.

A passionate woman writhes about, grabs you with her hands without looking where, clasps you, kisses you, even bites you and hurries to reach her climax as soon as she can. She has no time to display her sexual organs, no time to examine, touch with the hand and kiss your sexual organs, she is in such a hurry to slake her passion. Having slaked her passion, the passionate woman will fall asleep. The sexual organs of a passionate woman are dry. A passionate woman is always in some way or another mannish.

The sensual woman is always feminine.

Her contours are rounded and abundant.

The sensual girl rarely reaches a blind passion. She savours sexual enjoyment.

The sensual woman is always a woman and even in an unaroused state her sexual organs are moist. She has to wear a bandage on her sexual organs, so as not to soak them with moisture.

When she takes the bandage off in the evening, the bandage is so wet that it can be squeezed out.

Thanks to such an abundance of juices, the sexual organs of a sensual woman give off a slight, pleasant smell which increases strongly when the sensual woman is aroused. Then the juice from her sexual organs is secreted in a syrupy stream.

A sensual woman likes you to examine her sexual organs.

Boudoir Photography: The Fine Art Of Framing Female Sensuality

Not all of us are wannabe super-models or TV stars or figure 10s; yet we all love ourselves enough to take care of our bodies. Not being fashionable or figurative enough for popularity does not stop us from being photographed on occasion memorable and whenever you feel like being shot. Unfortunately though, in truth, super-models might be compelled to postpone wedding plans as postponing photo shoots would put them out of business. Fortunately though, for us, the not-so-supermodels, life can be more exciting with wedding plans as well as photo shoots; all it takes is - spot, shoot, seduce and subdue Mr. Right. Then its time for the bells, the real ones and not the ones ringing in your ears from the time you turned 13.

Similarly, art nude photography isnt all about posing or exhibiting your body nude or semi-nude, but it is about bringing out the female sensuality in you that is hidden away in the real world. On the other hand, those who have been through a session of boudoir photography know what arty nudes can do to your ego. Moreover the shoot can be a very private affair between your emotions and the photographers instinct, like in boudoir photography, but only if you find the right place. Boudoir photography is about the body and the soul, it is about capturing the whole package that is you and highlight personally through pictures and more very unlike just-sex of a porn photo-shoot.

As mentioned, there is nothing racy about boudoir photography as every woman who intends to celebrate her wedding in style would sure opt for the best boudoir photographer in town. Boudoir photography is about telling your man what you are made of and what to expect in future. It is about reflecting your love for the man in your life through intimate and emotional picture of you that says a million words without you having to say one.

Every client in the east cost of U.S. calling The Boudoir Suite for a session can opt for a shoot in studio after pre-shoot consultation with the boudoir photographers who would guide the clients through making decisions over poses, clothing and location options. Consultation in person or over the phone helps facilitate a better portrait session by discussing your expectations and desires in advance.

If you have already zeroed in on a location other than the studio, you are free to choose any, whether it be your home, or a friends, or any other. Boudoir is for every woman who loves herself and has enough sense to show it and is not about being in perfect shape, thin, or young. The boudoir photographers highlight your best features to create the perfect frame as they know just how to highlight your assets best and disguising what youre self conscious about. A good boudoir photographer captures the woman's true allure and sensuality, and that is what The Boudoir Suite does best, creating elegant and tasteful fine art portraits that celebrate the beauty of the female form. You can opt for professional hair and makeup, professional styling, that brings out the sexy you as well as what you are comfortable with.

Why Women Fake Orgasm?

Everybody heard rumours about women faking orgasms. Is that true? The majority of women have faked at least one orgasm, yet some fake almost all of them. Why do they do that? There are many reasons and the case is that there's no one to blame.

The most common are two reasons: they don't want to make their partners feel bad or they are tired and just want to end sex. Most females say that their partners are not satisfied until the girls feels orgasm, there's only one way to make them feel happy and stop the exhausting procedure - fake.

Another reason is that a typical female doesn't seek for orgasm; she desires a sexual relationship only because she wants intimacy. Still, such an attitude may make her partner feel bad. The only way out is to fake it out.

Some women never really experience orgasm while making sex, but they want their partner to feel good about himself and her. Men usually expect women to have pleasure, that's why females have no other choice. They have to fake to have a good relationship.

Loss of interest, having sex only because the partner wants to, also makes women to fake. Most females talk to their friends about such things and while they know other women act it, they do so too, because it's an easier way to have a good relationship.

When a man tries very hard, sometimes even too hard to make his woman have an orgasm, the woman usually finds it better to fake it than to disappoint her partner once again. They fear rejection if a man wouldn't understand her, they don't want to offend men because the absence of an orgasm is actually not their fault.

Some women may have health problems. If, while experiencing she becomes too sensitive and wants to stop, she fakes an orgasm in order to stop and relax. Orgasm may also cause discomfort and pain; that's a serious problem and she can't be blamed for faking. In such cases, most women prefer and enjoy orgasm more during solitary masturbation. Although they feel better while having orgasm themselves, they want to make their partner feel good too, so they act an orgasm out.

A female orgasm can be most easily faked by a good actress. There are few options: gripping something tightly; moaning loudly; breathing deeply; burying face into something (pillow); doing kegels or anything else at least remotely dramatic or climatic.

What to do if you think your partner is faking? Talk about it. Maybe she knows some special position or action that would make her happy. Don't get angry if she admits faking. Try to solve the problem, but don't get too far, don't try too hard because it may become an exhausting activity rather than an act of love.

Women act and men can do nothing about it; and maybe they shouldn't? Try to find out the real reasons of faking and discus possible ways out. Don't blame your partner for it; it's natural for women to do so from time to time. Show her your passion, love and try to understand her. ..